Talking to an old pal(?) made me realize that even if you try hard to maintain a camaraderie with a long lost friend, at times a bruised ego dosnt allow it. I think its practically very difficult for people to let bygones be bygones. Although you accept the present and intend to carve a different future the past always catches up and leaves you dumbfounded. And I think we should just let it be! There is no point in reveiving a friendship thats gone sour. Rejoice in the fact that are some beautiful moments and memories left but no friendship. There is a limit to every effort and the limit is even smaller when the effort is one sided. You should probably seek solace in the fact that you tried and it didnt work. Off late I seem to have developed an 'anti-midas touch', everything I seem to touch turns it to something of even inferior value. But I am not complaining. There is an antidote to every person and phase in life. That much I have realized!
Probably this post is just to reiterate the fact that you cannot let anyone ruin your sense of being. The following lines just came to my mind....
Ek baar waqt se,
lamha gira kahi
wahan dastaan mili,
lamhan kahi nahin.......
ho sake toh ismein zindagi bita lo, pal joh yeh jaanewala hain...................
4 comments:
chalta hai re ... tune try kiya naa ... bass ho gaya ... ab uske baawjood agar mai nahi sudhra to tera kya fault hai ... mereko tu pasand nahi hai as a friend ... thats it ... :P
True.. in fact your conscience will be clear because you tried and now there will be no "what if" about it :)
wah!!!! pratik kya reply hain ... :P
ha ha :)
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